There is nothing more important that we need to do but come into alignment with our true soul selves, and BE this in our every day lives. When we are aligned, we KNOW WHO WE ARE and we can then BE WHO WE ARE.
When we know who we are, then we are empowered with this knowledge. We are then confident to bring this true self into the physical world. When we try and hide our true selves to "fit in" then our lives do not flow as smoothly and we cannot reach the heights of consciousness that match our soul selves.
The only place we need to "fit in" is with our inner selves.
So many layers of our outer selves must be stripped away so that our inner selves can stand at the forefront of our existence - this is hard work - this takes commitment and a willingness to lose EVERYTHING in order to gain more than we could ever imagine. To be our true selves in this world is to live in a heaven on earth. It is like dying and being reborn again. Our past life will literally be our former selves in this body, in this lifetime.
Even though this is hard work it is the best work imaginable. We are the bosses every step of the way and we create the rules every step of the way - this is fun! But we do have to make a commitment and sign that invisible contract to our divine soul selves that says no matter what, I will not ignore you any longer, I will not deny your existence and bury you under a to do list, obligations or fake priorities.
As a spiritual evolutionist I see and live in a different reality to most people.