For want of a better word, I am going to call awesome 3D humans who have great relationships, rewarding careers, are successful, have money, travel, enjoy life and are fun to be around "Kick-ass Humans".
When we look at the life of a Kick-ass Human, outwardly they seem to have it all. This can inspire us to want to have a life like theirs. When I look deeper, under the illusion of the 3D outward life, it often isn't so great. When we are inspired by them to live like them, we are just looking at the outward perspective of what a "best" 3D human life can look like. We decide on this based on conditioning, judgement by others, marketing and what we think we should live life like.
This is why becoming a New Human can be so confusing and so difficult because we are constantly bombarded by conditioning of what a human life should look like and it is hard to break out of this and work towards something that we have no friggin clue about. All that we do know is that we have a pull inside of us that is nudging us to find something else, something new, something that hasn't been lived before.
Just because I enjoy spending time with kick-ass humans doesn't mean I should strive to be one. Kick-ass humans aren't bad, they are great, but I just don't think I am meant to be one. I tried it once and on the outside I had a great life, but on the inside I was a train-wreck!
I don't know what the New Human life will look like on the outside (how it will be projected to the rest of the world), and I really don't care too much, because I do know that it will feel amazing from the inside.
So don't fall into the trap of thinking that a 5D life will be just like an improved version of a "kick-ass" 3D life, because maybe it won't. Maybe it will look like a life that hasn't been lived before, or maybe it will look just the same as a 3D "kick-ass" life but feel much better from the inside. At the moment all we can do is theorize and get clues as we travel along this path, but limiting ourselves to what we "think" it will be like may mean we miss out on the expansiveness of what is possible in the human body for the first time ever.
There is nothing more important that we need to do but come into alignment with our true soul selves, and BE this in our every day lives. When we are aligned, we KNOW WHO WE ARE and we can then BE WHO WE ARE.
When we know who we are, then we are empowered with this knowledge. We are then confident to bring this true self into the physical world. When we try and hide our true selves to "fit in" then our lives do not flow as smoothly and we cannot reach the heights of consciousness that match our soul selves.
The only place we need to "fit in" is with our inner selves.
So many layers of our outer selves must be stripped away so that our inner selves can stand at the forefront of our existence - this is hard work - this takes commitment and a willingness to lose EVERYTHING in order to gain more than we could ever imagine. To be our true selves in this world is to live in a heaven on earth. It is like dying and being reborn again. Our past life will literally be our former selves in this body, in this lifetime.
Even though this is hard work it is the best work imaginable. We are the bosses every step of the way and we create the rules every step of the way - this is fun! But we do have to make a commitment and sign that invisible contract to our divine soul selves that says no matter what, I will not ignore you any longer, I will not deny your existence and bury you under a to do list, obligations or fake priorities.
As a spiritual evolutionist I see and live in a different reality to most people.