There are so many "rules" and experiences that are completely different when you don't live in 3D anymore. The biggest change is that you become the centre of your own universe. Everything happens for you and you get to do what ever you want in your best interest all of the time.
From a 3D perspective this sounds selfish and wrong, but from a higher dimensional perspective it is empowering and exactly what we need to be doing to changing ourselves and our world.
The last year I have been doing an experiment on myself. I decided to ONLY do what I want when I want to do it. Sound like a recipe for disaster but it has been such a positive amazing result with positive flow on effects to everyone around me.
Firstly my family knew I was doing this experiment, so if I offered to do something for them they knew I offered because it was exactly what I was happy to do, so there were no mind games or manipulations going on - it was clear and simple. You would also imagine that I would get less done, for example I wouldn't want to clean the house or do any chores but when you give yourself permission to not have to do something, then it is suprising how much you find that you actually want to do it. This meant I would live my days doing exactly what I wanted to do, got more accomplished, and most importantly I did this all with joy.
when you start to tap into what you feel like doing every moment of the day, then you are listening to your divine voice, your divine desires and allowing your soul to guide your every move. When we do what we think others want us to do, or what we think is expected of us, or what we think will make us a "good" person, then we are tapping into the 3D collective, our lower minds and fear to guide us in our decisions. But when we put ourselves in the centre of our own universe, then our actions are also in the centre of our lives and aligned with our soul self, we get to decide everything, we live much more authentic lives and our relationships get easier and stronger.
This experiment works especially for the most mundane small things in our daily life. Tap into your deepest desires for what you want to eat for breakfast, which way you want to drive to work, what time you want to eat dinner etc. Most of our behaviours are deeply rooted in habit.... it is amazing how difficult it can be to break these habits, but if you give yourself permission to only do what you desire in every moment then you may just break these habits and at the same time break out of 3D consciousness.
The coolest pars of this experiment for me where when I would have the desire/want/need to do something at a particular time that would make absolutely no logical sense. But I would go ahead and do it anyway (because it was an experiment and I wanted to see what would happen) and I would get the most interesting unexpected awesome results. The soul mind (5D consciousness) does not use logic or reasoning, and so it is with these types of desires that make no sense at the time, that have the greatest most magical impact on our lives.
As a spiritual evolutionist I see and live in a different reality to most people.